Don't Forget Your Crown: Self-love Has Everything to Do With It.

Words are not enough to describe how much I appreciated the writing and the philosophies within this book. THANK YOU DERRICK! After I finished reading the book, I almost felt like Derrick Jaxn personally "defended my honour". Whilst it may appear that the author is tipping the scale towards a female audience - I believe his writing is actually neutral, and explains both sides. It just seems that the book is more-so for women, based upon the "norms" of society in the realms of relationship dynamics - there is a major truth that males do get away more with certain behaviours. The purpose of the book serves as a reminder for people to have Self-love for themselves and to maintain our boundaries, whilst expressing a modern day perspective on long-standing social stigmas when it comes to relationships. I also felt that the author was a "Voice" for certain people who may not have had the courage previously to speak up about their needs because they wanted to avoid conflict or maintain "status quo" at the sacrifice of their emotions and happiness. I highly recommend this book for anyone who just needs a quick re-affirmation/reiteration of how much they matter as a person. It is a very enjoyable and easy-read. The style of writing is purely the Author relaying his personal experiences yet, they are completely relatable. As a reader engaging with the "growth" of the Author within the book - it also gave me a sense of hope that there are males out there who do have an interest in being a better person, and DOING better towards a harmonious relationship.

I absolutely LOVE this book. Derrick is great with words, saying things in a way that's straight forward and to the point. His analogies help give perspective that you may not have seen before. I appreciate his attention and guidance to focusing on yourself first, then your (future) partner. He highlights the importance of emotional intelligence, understanding your own emotions, triggers and reactions that may be causing you to get in your own way of being happy. To truly listen to your partner, tuning out the outside world (and society's version of what we are supposed to be/want/do) and seeing what it is your partner needs. Not subconsciously tolerating BS because it isn't really the person you want in front of you, it's to stop the stigma and spotlight of singleness and to quiet the loneliness. I wish more people today held the same values, opinions, morals and respect. In this book alone, I could relate to every chapter, reflecting on past advice, seeing where and why relationships didn't work out, both on their side and mine, as well as where some of my fears that make me hesitant to date and start over again. I took the time to note important points he made and journal my own version/experiences, how I felt, my part, where I've ignored my intuition in fear of being "crazy" or simply wanting to give someone the benefit of the doubt with friends, family and significant others. It was eye opening. I recommend everyone, at any stage in their lives, to read this book. Even if you already have a great relationship, it's a fantastic reminder to continue nurturing yourself and your relationship.

This is my husbands account so I am guessing this review will reference his name. Just wanted to inform you that my review is a woman's perspective as a wife. I find this book to be very insightful and love his analogies/comparison references, when explaining information or views from his perspective. I found some thing that did not apply to me at all but that was expected. I came across Derrick a few months back while searching for information pertaining a situation I have been going through. He would reference that he wrote more information in his book pertaining to the subject matter that I have been interested in. I found my feeling and thoughts that I am currently having to be verified, so this book helped me tremendously, in knowing that the way I am feeling and thinking are normal for my situation. Though I cannot confirm that my thoughts are in fact true, because there is no proof. I have been dealing with an enormous amount of emotion that has been out of control, it would seem. In my case, 3 other not normal life circumstances had been in the loop at the same time, so it is possible I was way off base in my mind and I am trying to go with that. However, I am a over thinker and my mind needs resolution to move on, and for some reason, it keeps going back to the other thoughts. Anyway, I loved this book and just knowing that my thoughts are actually in the right place makes all the difference. I am planning on reading it a second time. Thank You Derrick for your insight.

The overall book was excellent! Reading from the pages of this book was really honest, and as the author you were very forthcoming. Your transparency is very believable. Your life experiences are relatable. I have experienced a very deep and painful heartbreak from a relationship which I am trying to put in the past, but I’m not having much success. I sincerely loved the person. I spent more years in the relationship than most people stay married. Please pray for me and that God will allow my heart to mend; and I can really moved forward, and feel the joys of life once again. Also, what has made it more difficult is the loss of family-love ones in this pandemic while dealing with a broken heart! It has compounded the loss and sadness. Thank you for a well written book; one which I needed to read at this time in my life! I do hope I can find my Crown and it isn’t lost! I wish you much success with your future projects! Be well.

Thank you Derrick for being so transparent about your opinion and your story. I understood that a lot needs to be unlearn regarding our perspective about Love and Relationships. Everything was so clear and relatable.

The hard language took a bit getting used to, but the spirit under all that is true and life-affirming. I needed this book to remind me of somethings that I had forgotten to remember along the way of growing up. I, along with my best friend, were long looking forward to the release of the kindle version and I read the book entirely - while taking notes - the same day. I would recommend this to every woman, both broken and whole, to remind her of her worth .... and to every man who is genuinely looking for a light to show him his way Thank you Mr. Derrick Jaxn

In this fast paced world of social media and a world of fast love its very easy to get into the habit of bending into a pretzel in order to hopefully find that long lasting love.. This book reminds you to have faith in what you have to offer to a relationship it reminds you that a man must work for a place in your life and that you deserve that level of effort. Be patient and wear your crown in the meantime pour all that love you have for a relationship into yourself Kimberley xx

This book has changed my life and the way I look at things. I couldn't put it down and even read it twice! I am so thankful a friend recommend it to me. This book is insightful and honest. It teaches you how important self-love really is to build a healthy foundation for yourself and in your relationship and how to set boundaries of what is okay or off limits. I feel so much stronger and better about myself after coming out of a relationship similar to what was described in this book. I know exactly what kind of man I want in my life and who I want to be and I guarantee anyone that reads this will feel the same afterwards. Thank you Derrick for sharing your experiences and stories and for being so incredibly real. I would highly recommend this book to everyone!

Excellent book!!!