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# Black Belt Husband: A Marriage Book for Men

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### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    A great guide for men on marriage
  

*by M***N on Reviewed in the United States on November 2, 2018*

There are a ton of gems throughout this guide.Here are my top takeaways:Our goal is to become increasingly aware of the thoughts and emotions that drive our behaviors.A strong marriage is based on humility. SEE MARRIAGE AS A VERB, NOT A Noun! EVERYTHING WORTH HAVING TAKES EFFORT AND INTENTIONALITY! COMPLACENCY IS A MARRIAGE DEATH SENTENCE! Impatience and a lack of gratitude are obstacles to our goal of becoming Black Belt Husbands.CONSISTENCY IS THE NECESSARY OXYGEN TO THE MARRIAGE! 5:1 Ratio: Five positive interactions to every one negative interaction.The journey is to become supremely honest in your relationships, but we first have to recognize that our fear of conflict holds us back.Honesty is key. Can't give up what you love for her. Our resentments are a road map to the places where we haven’t been as honest as we needed to be.Learn to share your resentments with your wife. She doesn't have to like them. As we grow in assertiveness, we will kill the inner people pleaser that insists on making sure other people are happy, even at the expense of our own emotional health.Becoming more assertive is about coming to the table of life, welcoming yourself, and joining the party to which you’ve been rightfully invited.Your personal non-negotiables are the things in your life that really matter to you. These are the things that you need for yourself in order to live a fulfilled life.Be PLAYFUL! The mature masculine man, in his fullest expression is wild and playful.The mature masculine man is untamed. He isn’t worried about offending others with his spontaneity and he doesn’t obsess about looking so put together that he forgets to enjoy the moment. The mature masculine lives life in full color. He is playful, spontaneous, fun, and does not take himself too seriously. He knows how to offer his family the joy they need from him.Are your children going to remember how playful you were or how distracted you seemed?What did you love doing when you were young? And how can you reclaim that in your life today? As you PLAY an adult you have more to give your wife and family! PLAYFULNESS IS AN ASSET AND TOO MUCH SERIOUSNESS BECOMES A LIABILITY! I’m Okay (a mindfulness script to reduce stress) {Your name}, you move at a very fast pace You need to slow down if you want to connect with {Her name} You expect a lot out of people, sometimes too much This keeps you isolated and disconnected {Your name}, you are strong and brave. {Your name}, you are okay You are more than okay, you are doing really well.   You can relax and enjoy the goodness of this present moment. {Your name}, You are solid You are as solid as a mountain And you can rest knowing you are very loved and cared for {Your name}, you are okay {Your name}, you can be playful like you were when you were a child That child still lives inside you and wants to play again. He is safe enough to come out and play {Your name}, the little boy inside you is going to be okay. Nobody will die You are not in harm’s way Whatever it is you worry about will work itself out.   It will all be okay Urgency is not helpful right now More patience is what you need Your wife wants to smile with you.   You can smile with her. {Your name} You will be okay.BEING SUCCESSFUL IN MARRIAGE REQUIRES US TO BE CONNECTED TO A BAND OF BROTHERS! 3 Groups of Friends: Fun (let loose), Work, and Inner Circle (Band of Brothers who share values and life goals. Accountable confidants.)How to ASK A BAND OF BROTHER:I hope you’re doing well.     I’ve been thinking lately about how I could really benefit from having better and more consistent friendships in my life.     I’ve been thinking about how it would be cool to have my own “band of brothers”to develop more accountability.     I’m looking for guys who share my core values about marriage, life, etc.   I thought you would be a great person to start with and I’m wondering if you might be interested in working together and helping one another?   Let me know what you think, and if you’re interested we can talk more about it.   If not, no problem, I understand.When we talk about creating a sense of emotional safety for our partners, we mean helping our spouses reach and fulfill higher level needs such as the love and belonging or esteem portions of the hierarchy of needs. Emotional safety in this context is about helping our wives feel valued, understood , cared for, and connected to us.AFFAIR PROOF YOUR MARRIAGE: When we offer our partners more emotional support by listening well, attuning to their world, and being present, we are walking the path of the Black Belt Husband and accomplishing the journey to EMOTIONAL SAFETY! Your wife communicates her deeper, more vulnerable feelings through criticism. She doesn’t feel safe enough to communicate her more authentic and vulnerable feelings like sadness, hurt, or fear. Think of criticism as her defense mechanism.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    The most important marriage book a man will ever read
  

*by D***N on Reviewed in the United States on February 18, 2021*

This is without a doubt the best marriage book I’ve ever read. This book is for any man. It’s especially for the men who don’t know how to show up, even if they wanted to. It’s for the man who’s made mistakes, it’s for the man who wants to learn the tools to make marriage work. I have highlighted and underlined in every single page that I’ve read.  This book is like a hammer to a carpenter, the  stethoscope to a doctor, the Bible to a preacher. Without this book you will have so much difficulty parsing out every aspect of a mans life that keeps you stuck in marriage. It’s not full of fluff, it’s not dull. It’ll kick you in the face, and expect you to get back up. Because that’s what men do. I cannot put it down. I will be reading this many many times.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Eye opening, mind opening, and soul opening
  

*by J***O on Reviewed in the United States on August 27, 2022*

As a recently separated husband, I stumbled on this book while scrolling mindlessly on IG.  It couldn't have come at a better time for me.  Every page had me engaged, and the tools Quentin lays out are something even the best husbands can use to enhance their marriage.

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